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HOW SHOULD BE THE RELATIONSHIP OF THE HUSBAND AND WIFE?
Marriage is the state of being husband and wife. Marriage is a legal and social bonding of two persons and families.
Marriage is a the Institution in which man and woman and their families are regulated by social laws, customs, duties, beliefs and love.
Marriage is a promise of man and woman and their families made in their hearts to fulfill their love, unity, desires and needs. Marriage is the process in which men and women are accepted by their society to live with each other. Marriage is the process in which men and women are allowed to live with each other and produce their offspring.
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Marriage is a beautiful unity of two persons and their souls.
Trust, commitments, communication and Respect.
These 4 pillars are interconnected with each other. On these pillars , relationship of house is build but Honesty is the plinth of this house.
About the love of both husband and wife (apply from both sides) :-
1 .Respect each other and their sentiments.
2. Not revealing the personal life of their relationship.
3. Correct each other's wrong doing and praise each other's good doing.
4. Accompany your husband while he eats.
. Supporting attitude towards each other.
6. Showing appreciation for small things towards each other.
7 . Spending time with each other.
8 . Conversations and commitments. Man should protect her wife's modesty and character and wife should protect her husband's property when he is away.
9. The wife should dress up and beauty herself, and the husband should be caring.
10. Respect each other and their families also.
11 . The wife should obey her husband and the husband should respect his wife's sentiments.
12 . Be the strength of your love not the weakness.
13 . Never leave them alone.
14 . Never hiding anything from each other indicates the best relation .
15 . Trust your love and whom you love.
16 . Your partner doesn't know how much you love them, they only know how much you care.
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VIVAH K SAAT VACHAN :- I am going to write some sanskrit shlokas in hindi - English accent. If I Will make some mistakes, please correct me. I will be thankful to you my friends.
1. Tirthbratodhyapan yagyakarma mya sahaib priyabayam kuryaa |
Bamangmayami tada twadiyam brabiti bakyam prathamam kumari ||
Meaning :- kanya var se kahti hai ki ,yadi aap koi brata - upavas ya anya koi dharmik kaam ya tirthayatra par jaaye to mujhe bhi apne sath lekar jaaye. Yadi aap ise swikar karte hain to main aapke bamang me aana swikar karti hun.
2. Pujyau yatha swapitrau mamapi tatheshbhakto nijkarma kuryaa |
Bamangmayami tada twadiyam brabiti kanya vachnam dwitiyam||
Meaning :- kanya var se kahti hai ki aap apne mata pita ki tarah hi mere mata pita ka samman karenge or pariwar ki maryada ka pa lang karenge. Yadi aap ese swikar karte hain to main apke bamang me aana swikar karti hun.
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Kanyadaan |
3 . Jivanam avasthatraye mum palanam kuryat |
Bamangmayami tada twadiyam brabiti kanya vachanam tritiyam ||
Meaning :- Aap jivan me tino awasthaon [ yuvawastha, prodhavastha or bridhavastha ] me mera palan karenge. Yadi aap ese swikar karte hain to mai aapke bamang me aana swikar karti hun.
4 . Kutumbsampalan sarvkarya kartu pratigya yadikatam kurya |
Bamangmayami tada twadiyam brabiti kanya vachanam charturtham||
Meaning :- kanya var se kahti hai ki ab hum vivah k bandhan me bandh rahe hain, to bhavishya me pariwar ki sabhi aawasyaktaon ki purti ki jimmedari aapke kandhe par hai. Yadi aap ese swikar karte hain to mai aapke bamang me aana swikar karti hun.
5 . Swasdhya karte vyabaharkarmanye vyaye mamapi mantrayetha |
Bamangmayami tada twadiyam brute vacha panchmatra kanyaa||
Meaning :- kanya var se kahti hai ki aap ghar k kaamo me, vivah aadi , len - den ya anya koi kharch karte samay aap meri rai liya karenge, to main aapke bamang me aana swikar karti hun.
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Happy old couple |
6. Na mepmanamum sabidhe sakhinam dhyutam na ba durvyarsanam bhanjaschet |
Bamangmayami tada twadiyam brabiti kanya vachanam cha sastham||
Meaning :-kanya var se kahti hai ki ,yadi main sabhi saheliyon k sathe rahu to aap sabke samne kabhi mera apmaan nhi karenge. Juaa ya kisi bhi tarah ki buraiyon ko aap apne se dur rakhenge, to mai aapke bamang me aana swikar karti hun.
7 . Parstriyam matrisaman samichhaya sneham sada chenmayi kant kurya|
Bamangmayami tada twadiyam brute vacha saptmatra kanya ||
Meaning :-kanya var se kahti hai ki, aap parayi striyon ko maa saman samajhenge or pati - patni ke aapsi prem ke bich anya kisi ko bhi nhi aane denge. Yadi aap ese swikar karte hain to main aapke bamang me aane ko swikar karti hun.
FAQ.......
1 . Why ladies bear payal and bichhiya after marriage?
Ans:- from ancient times it is said that the bearing gold makes our body immunity and healthy body whereas the silver gives us strong mind. Our body has number of veins and arteries . Bearing payal and bichhiya helps in blood circulation and bichhiya is connected with our uterus.
2 . Why hindu marriage has seven promises?
And:- Marriage promise is associated with Jap, Tap, Vrata, Niyam, karm, Daan and Swadhyaya. There fore there are seven promises. But in some parts of village of Gujarat, there are only four promises.
3 . What should be the three pillars of a successful marriage?
Ans :- Respect, believe and Dedication. ( if there is dedication, there is love).
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